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I've searched on the internet for a list of things not to say to someone with chronic illness, and here are some of the things I've found. I personally agree with some and not with others, but for this survey, I've compiled a list of things other people |
said they don't want people to say to them. If you suffer from a chronic illness, have you ever had anyone say to you..... |
You don't look sick. | |
I hope you're feeling well. | |
Have you tried....? | |
It could be worse. | |
It's mind over matter; stay positive. | |
It's just stress. | |
I'm tired, too. | |
You cancel plans often. | |
At least you have time to rest. | |
I'm jealous you don't have to work. | |
I know how you feel. | |
It can't be that bad. | |
At least you're young. | |
You'll be fine. | |
You're probably just stressed. | |
You should do yoga. 🧘♂️ | |
Suck it up. | |
Get over it. | |
Just don't eat gluten; you'll be fine. | |
You should do _____; it worked for me. | |
Just eat more vegetables. 🥬 | |
I don't believe you. It's all in your head. | |
I think you should talk to a psychiatrist/counselor/therapist, etc. | |
You are just really unfit and need to start going to the gym. | |
You just need more sleep. | |
You just need to try [insert random imaginary miracle suggestion here]. | |
At least you don't have cancer. | |
Are you sure you're not just PMS-ing? | |
Gosh, you look six months pregnant. | |
You're so unlucky. | |
You're lazy. | |
All girls get cramps. | |
I know it hurts, but you're going to just have to suck it up and deal with it. | |
If you're in pain, just take Tylenol. | |
There's nothing wrong with you; you're just a drama queen. | |
Disease is all in the mind. | |
I believe God can heal you if you have enough faith. | |
Have you lost weight? You look great! | |
I'm sure things will get better. | |
Did you get this because you _____? | |
My aunt's cousin's best friend who shares your disease is doing great! | |
You should try this amazing herbal remedy. | |
You seem fine most of the time. | |
You should do this instead. | |
It's only stress. | |
Are you sure you can't eat that? | |
Is your weight the cause of your chronic illness? | |
We all have bad days. | |
We all have pain. | |
I know someone who had that & they're better now. | |
You're too young to be dealing with this. | |
How were you able to go out yesterday but not today? | |
You're on too many medications. 💊 | |
I could never do what you're doing. | |
You're still going through that? | |
You're over-exaggerating. | |
Must be nice to relax all day. | |
Just be positive. | |
You have to get your stress under control. | |
Is it fatal? Will you die? | |
Oh...that's gross. | |
Have you tried ______? | |
But you were just out last weekend, so you can't be that sick! | |
If you stopped talking about it all the time and looked on the bright side, you'd feel better. | |
Aren't you worried about taking medication for the rest of your life? | |
You just need to get out more often. | |
I wish I could lie around all day and do nothing. | |
You look fantastic! | |
Disease is a message from your soul, telling you that something is wrong with your True Self. | |
My sister-in-law's best friend had what you have and she said she got better by drinking bottled water. | |
Do you meditate? | |
Have you prayed about it? | |
Just don't think about it. | |
Aren't you worried that you're getting out of shape from living such a sedentary lifestyle? | |
Are you eating enough fruits and vegetables? | |
What medications are you on? | |
I am so glad I don't have it as bad as you. | |
What do you do all day? | |
You should try eating better. | |
Eat organic food. Cut out all sugars. | |
Compared to starving orphans in Africa, this is nothing. | |
My neighbor has been through even more than you and was able to trust God through it. You should talk to her. | |
You should be over this by now. I'm not sure why it's still such a big deal to you. | |
If you had enough faith, you could be much better. | |
I'm sorry. | |
I claim this is gone in Jesus' name. | |
You just don't have enough faith. | |
But you don't look sick! | |
You're so brave. | |
Just wait until you're older! | |
It could always be worse. | |
You clearly don't need that wheelchair/walker/cane. | |
You're not disabled; you can walk. | |
Manifest being healthy! | |
You should do apple cider vinegar shots every morning. | |
Are you dating? | |
You have what? I've never heard of it. | |
You need to exercise more. | |
Are you feeling better yet? | |
Maybe an anti-depressant would help. | |
That condition is caused by anxiety. | |
I think you should let our pastoral staff pray over you. | |
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