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soccer3586


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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:22 PM       Subject: "the sex talk"
Did ur parents ever really talk to you about it or did u just find out on ur own...i think my parents made an effort to talk about the birds and the bees, but i was too young to understand what a condom was.
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:25 PM         Subject: RE:
Hahaha, I love you Hannah!
Such interesting topics you always bring up.

Anywho, same as you, I think my parents * tried * to bring it up a few times, but I obviously didn't want to hear it from them, so I was like, "AHH CAN'T HEAR YOUUU!"

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But I ride just about the most disturbing.. erm, interesting bus in the Marion County bus system.. so, riding a bus like that, kind of, informs you on those types of things.
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:28 PM         Subject: RE:
haha thanks and i feel ya, i learned more on my bus than anything
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:33 PM         Subject: RE:
Is this Bzoink appropriate?


My parents never discussed it with me, learned about that stuff on my own. For all I know, my parents still think I don't know what sex is. :?
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:40 PM         Subject: RE:
lol it should be appropiate as long as nobody immature makes things awkward.
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:45 PM         Subject: RE:
Yeah, I was wondering if it was Bzoink appropriate too, but I'm pretty sure it would be fine.
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 05:45 PM         Subject: RE:
i'm right there with you, ashley.
everything i know about sex, i've learned from school, & not the 'family like' classes.
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 06:22 PM         Subject: RE:
I learned everything from my mom....she was up front and honest with me from an early age about EVERYTHING....of course she didnt go overboard but as I got older and could handle more complex thinking and topics she would tell me things a little more indepth...plus she kept track of things I was going through and certain experiences I had so I never had to find out on my own....
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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 09:52 PM         Subject: RE:
Thankfully, I never had the sex talk. Actually, I learned everything from my friends and books. Eventually, though, around when I was in the seventh grade, I started talking about it to my mom and we have conversations about it sometimes. Ha.

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Posted: 03 Apr 2009 09:57 PM         Subject: RE:
I don't know if this is Bzoink appropriate or not either.. And to be honest sometimes I get sick of trying to make judgement calls on this when I don't really know what the right answer is.

It's not my goal to shelter you all from life, or to say that sex is bad.. Which it can be, but it can also be good.

blah blah blah. I don't even know what to say, I was planning to same something great and whatever. I'm 23. I don't have any more answers than any of you do.. I'm just sick of all of the things in life that cause people problems.. and don't actually need to cause them problems if they'd just realize and admit how certain things affect their lives.

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Posted: 04 Apr 2009 03:24 AM         Subject: RE:
My mom tryed to tell me in third grade... but when she got to the end, she said to ask my dad about that haha. So I didn't really get it till about sixth grade. Then it took till like nine or tenth grade for me to have the whole idea figured out. <<< And now my poor mother knows more about that part of my life than she bargained for hahaha, I tell her enough to make her blush sometimes. I find it amusing to see her squirm.
And I'm nineteen, and don't know if it's inappropriate... but we aren't going into excruciating detail, so I don't think it really is...
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Posted: 04 Apr 2009 06:20 AM         Subject: RE:
I learned most of what I know about sex on my own. My parents, well my Dad tried to inform me of sex..but like any other typical kid I wouldn't listen. After a few tries he gave up.
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Posted: 04 Apr 2009 10:37 AM         Subject: RE:
My mom's pretty cool about that stuff. I can't pick out a specific "talk" but instead a series of talks that gradually got more detailed from the day I could talk or something. I can't remember a time when I didn't know what sex was...

PS-Andy, I don't think this is too bad. I mean, we're not sharing porn stories or anything. ;)
We're all pretty mature here, I think, so I'm pretty sure we can handle it.
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Posted: 04 Apr 2009 11:50 AM         Subject: RE:
My parents talked to me about it at all. Of course I'm only 15 but they should of still talked to me about some things. Not that I would listen anyway. Like most of you I found out on my own. I learned from friends and the internet. I didn't look porn sites or anything in case you wondering. I just went on different forums where some people talked about it.
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Posted: 04 Apr 2009 01:03 PM         Subject: RE:
I'm really glad my mom talked to me about it because now I feel like when I do want to have sex, I can go to her to get the protection I need. It's kind of sad that teens feel like they can't talk to their parents abou stuff like this, especially when that parent offers to talk about it. . It's important. Your parents were teenagers at one point, too. They know what it's like.
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