Forum Index : General : Relationships : I have realised something!
Post New Reply
Username   Not a member? Sign up, free
Password
Subject
Message body

Emoticons
Very Happy Smile Sad Surprised
Shocked Confused Cool Laughing
Mad Razz Embarassed Crying or Very sad
Evil or Very Mad Twisted Evil Rolling Eyes Wink
Exclamation Question Idea Arrow
 
View more Emoticons
 Font color:  Font size: Close Tags
Options
HTML is ON
BBCode is ON
Smilies are ON
Do not show my signature in this post
Disable HTML in this post
Disable BBCode in this post
Disable Smilies in this post
   
zkramaric


Posts: 3
Profile | Journal
Posted: 31 Mar 2015 12:42 AM       Subject: RE: I have realised something!
Good luck with the book! :)
roxy-ryan


Posts: 8415
Profile | Journal
Posted: 01 Jan 2015 03:37 AM       Subject: RE: I have realised something!
Josh!
I know the feeling, being cheated on it one of the worst feelings when you like/love someone. I do not and never will understand why people get into relationships only to cheat on that person with others. Stay single if getting with more than one person is what you want.
Commitment issues usually do come from losing trust in people you care about.
I lost all hope after being beaten up, lied to, cheated on etc.
I still do not have all my confidence back and I have realised when someone shows interest i push them away or I spend a litlle time with them and then do the same.
I feel like I am not good enough for anyone.
I have been helping a lot of people with their dramas and you learn so much. It is scary how many people have similar issues.

I find myself settling for less than I deserve all the time and I believe in a saying 'We settle for what we believe we deserve'.
If you start believing you are the issues when you weren't the issue you will believe that ANYONE is good enough, even the people that will end up hurting you.

Promise me, you will never settle for anything less than what you deserve.
You never deserved being cheated on and you need to believe that and believe in yourself. Believe you will find the right person because you will.
It takes time and usually happens when you are not looking for it..

If someone wants to be with you, they should treat you like you're the only one that matters. They won't flirt with others, they won't go behind your back with others and they certainly will not cheat.

A guy on Facebook the other day added me, we had mutual friends so I thought I would accept.
Within five minutes he was asking me to get on cam and strip and touch myself for him, to get him off. I could not believe it .. he had only gotten married two days before this.
Some people just cannot commit or purposely try to hurt the ones that care for them the most.

Do not give up.
Commitment is a big thing.
You need to be sure of someone before you commit to them.
and most of all you need to be treated like you matter.

and Andy :) you're welcome xx


Roxy Ryan
30
Obsessed with AMC's The Walking Dead, Disney and Tumblr.

Wanna keep a hold of my heart
I'm falling into this again
Falling in and out of love.
andy


Posts: 3733
Profile | Journal
Posted: 30 Dec 2014 11:43 PM       Subject: RE: I have realised something!
Thanks Roxy! <3
I am the very fancy owner and creator of Bzoink! Thank you for using it.
Feel free to private message me and add me as your friend.

Message Me | Journal | Profile | Add Me