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Appearance- because looks are first impression. |
What should be the impression given by his overall appearance? | |
What would be his ideal hair color? | |
What would be his ideal eye color? | |
What race would you prefer? | |
What should his complection be like? | |
Around how tall should he be? | |
What body type? | |
How should he dress? | |
What hair length do you prefer? | |
Do you like hats on men? | |
Should he be neat and clean or a greaser? | |
Are there any traits you find partiuclarly attractive? | |
Are there any traits you find particularly unattractive? | |
Are there any physical traits I've missed, but you feel should be mentioned | |
Age and Economic Status- Things everyone thinks about. |
What age range are you looking for? | |
Does his economic status matter? | |
Personality- The important stuff it takes a while to find out. |
What is the single most important personality trait you look for? | |
What personality trait do you find most unpleasant? | |
What are some areas of interest you would like him to share with you? | |
Is sense of humor important to you? Elaborate. | |
Do you want a man with a protective personality? | |
What kind of movies would you want to watch with him? | |
What kind of music would you want to listen to with him? | |
What activities would you like to share with him? | |
Would you object to a passion for sports? | |
Would you get jealous when he goes out with the guys? | |
Should he know what you're feeling without you telling him? | |
Is it important to you that he buy you gifts? | |
Is it important to you that he spend a lot of time with you? | |
Is his level of intelligence important? | |
Would you want him to be smarter than you? | |
Would you want him to be your provider? | |
Would he be aggressive? | |
Would he be ambitious? | |
Would he be tactful or blunt? | |
Is it important that he have a spirit of adventure? | |
Would you prefer a higly domestic man? | |
Life Goals- For when it gets serious. |
Do you want children? | |
Do you expect to be a stay-at-home mom? | |
Would you ever want to be a 'housewife'? | |
What are your career goals? | |
Would it bother you if his career involved a lot of travel or long hours? | |
Would you object to him being a workaholic? | |
If he has a low paying or menial job, are you still interested? | |
Are you looking for marriage? | |
In what country would you like to live? | |
In what state, if U.S.? | |
Would you like to live in the city, country, or suburbs? | |
Would you want him to work close to home or commmute? | |
If you had to pick one or the other: is he a good father or a good husband? | |
If it came down to you or 'the baby', which would you have him choose? | |
If you wish to have children, how many do you wish to have? | |
What automobile would you want the two of you to have? | |
Conservative or liberal? | |
Are politics important to you? | |
Beliefs- the REALLY important stuff. |
What is your religion? | |
Is it important that he shares your beliefs? | |
Would you have a relationship with someone from a different belief system? | |
What would you do if, after marriage, he changed his belief system? | |
Does your belief system allow for divorce? | |
Does your belief system allow abortion? | |
Morning-after pill? | |
Does your belief system demand fidelity? | |
Would you want to be his first? | |
If you have different belief systems, which would be taught to any progeny? | |
Would you celebrate Christian holidays? | |
Other holidays? | |
Would you celebrate with your family or his? | |
Finally- stuff that didn't fit anywhere else. |
What kind of wedding do you want? | |
Do you want pets? If so, what kinds? | |
Would you want him to be a college graduate? | |
What sort of background/childhood would you prefer he come from? | |
Is it important that he likes books? | |
Does he like Green Day? | |
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